Winning Ways to WOMEN HEART

Who can understand the intricate working of the female heart? How are her affections won - is it really chemistry, or just simple acts of genuine love and concern?

I met my husband in the company were i work. The thing that attracted me was that he had loyalty- something that sadly, not a lot of men today can give. I liked his kindness, and willingness to help. I knew this was the man for me! Of cause, more than his looks, i found that he was caring and very loving. He always asks for my opinion, and it shows me that he respects me. To me, understanding is the most important factor for a strong marriage, as it overcomes all things.

In a marriage, husbands and myself take the time to attend each other consistently and constantly. As with anything else worth having and developing, a relationship needs to be nurtured. Make time for each other to safeguard the marriage from disillusionment, falling out of love, affairs or worse.

In general, try and do things together and create regular times within busy schedules to spend time together. Here are the few tips to improve relationship with your spouse and help you make your relationship more special.

Tips for Husband:

• Show your words and your actions, that you care about your wife.
  Don’t keep problem to yourself, communicate with your wife and let her know your concerns and problems.
• Be open and honest about your feelings and needs.
• Be committed to family life and spend time with your wife and children.
• If you have children, share in the tasks of parenting.
• Some man will have difficulty to speak up “I love you”, a small thoughtful gift like a flower or a little note or favourite meal of hers will make her feel special.
• Always make time to spend time together with at least 20 minutes of daily conversation.
  Show your commitment by serving her in creative ways.
  

Tips for Wives:

• Try and find an activity you both enjoy doing together.
• Create a supportive home environment.
• Take care of your body and appearance. How you dress and appear to your spouse reflects your respect too.
• Admire your spouse and make them feel important and valued.
• A hug when both of you get back home to make you feel appreciated.
• Resolve conflict in respectful ways that do not hurt one another.
• Avoid nagging and complaining.
• Create and improve on trust.
• Be open about your needs and feelings to your husband.
  

Bottom line, a little time spent with each other is key to a stronger relationship, and understanding becomes simpler too.